guys, have you ever hurt a girl?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever hurt a girl physically or emotionally?

[Anonymous]

When I was a little kid, I threw a basket ball at my future girlfriends face because she wouldn't let me on the swing. lol

Then once another girlfriend broke up with me because I had a crush on another girl, I didn't even talk to the other one, I just had a crush on her and my girlfriend got mad and was with another guy a few days later haha.

Never have since, not even grabbed a girl by her arm. Id probably feel horrible if I accidentally hurt her.

[Asker]

the first one made me lol haha

"Id probably feel horrible if I accidentally hurt her." that's so sweet.

[Cookie1995]

I would never dream of physically hurting a girl. Far the opposite intact. I'd never let let a girl get hurt either.

[Asker]

you are brave and nice.

[Cookie1995]

Thanks. I stopped a girl getting hurt a few weeks ago. A group of guys were hitting her about so I went over go stop them. I'd so the same again anytime.

[Asker]

a group of guys hitting a girl, are they heartless?! anyway it's nice you that helped

[Asker]

*that you helped :))

[Cookie1995]

Yeah I guess so. I still got the crap kicked out of me though

[Asker]

sorry to hear that, you must have been really hurt. those guys are morons -.-

[Cookie1995]

Yeah. But Antilles stopped them hurting her and that's all I wanted to do. I'd do that for anyone.

[cheesesteak7]

physically - some have complained I choke to hard when kissing or having sex...not sure if that falls under "hurting"? Or just lack of air?

emotionally - yes.

[Asker]

can be both. I guess it's "accidentally hurting" if you're not enjoying it?

and how did you emotionally hurt them?

[cheesesteak7]

wow, I meant *too hard.

Anyway, well, I'm sure I've hurt some girls back in younger days when I was just looking to get laid. But some specifics I can remember is a girl I dated (never had sex) said I hurt her feelings when I jokingly said she could leave my apt for some reason (I think she called me weird or something?)

Another is my ex-gf (together 4 years) who I hurt when we talked and I wanted something she didn't want - kids of my own (she already has 2) - and we decided to separate.

[cheesesteak7]

i remember now, she jokingly called me "creepy" and I jokingly said like "fine then, you can leave". She almost cried then. I didn't get it. She was being mean first!

[Asker]

Yeah it seems she was mean first but maybe it sounded serious even if you said it jokingly.

Wanting kids of your own is your right. I cannot judge people though, she could have been scared of more responsibility.

[martyfellow]

Only by flirting with other girls. That's my constitutional right, though, so I don't feel bad about it.

Hey, often the girl started it, mommy!

I'd never physcially hurt a girl except in self defense, if she jumped me from behind.

[front2back]

No, I have never hurt a girl physically or emotionally, at least on purpose (not my fault she blocked the volleyball spike with her face).

Now, other men on the other hand...yeah I am kind of a d***.

[priyang]

Yes once I hurt her emotionally, but said her SORRY too

she is too much caring, so that she forgave me too

after those day, I take care more about her

[Anonymous]

Physically- no, emotionally- not that I know of. Plenty of girls have hurt me emotionally though.

[Asker]

sorry about that.

[Opinion Owner]

That's just life I guess. Nice guys get used, the jerks get all the girls.

[Asker]

im sure you will find someone that appreciates being nice :)

[Anonymous]

Physically no. Emotionally, not as far as I know, but probably.

[big_poppa_pump]

yes but only during sex

[Vandal]

Physically, no. Emotionally, yeeeahhhh...

[Asker]

Do you regret it?

[Vandal]

Nah, I was just following my heart.

[Lj238]

I have not

[Asker]

great.