Guys, why do you sometimes lay your head on our boobs when you hug us?

[LilKim]

I have noticed this sometimes. Does it mean anything or is there a reason why y'all do this?

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Does it make any difference if they are coworkers and one is gay?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

It's soft, it's warm, it's cozy, it makes a good pillow, and I can hear her heartbeat. Also breasts are nice. Whenever I do this though it's either with a girl I'm already in a relationship with, or because I'm intimate with her in other ways. I also had a close friend who I did this with. She was awesome like that, she was very touchy-feely. It was nice. Though we scaled it back a ton when I started seeing someone, because well... not really appropriate sticking my head on someone else's boobs if I'm in a relationship.

Anyway, it's mainly just because it's nice for cuddles, and for the things listed above. Soft, cozy, warm, pillowy, and the heartbeat is soothing, plus breasts are nice. It's not a whole lot more complicated than that.

[LilKim]

The two guys I'm thinking only were both coworkers. One is taller than me. The other is a little shorter and supposed to be gay...

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

LOL oh that. Well, truth is, gay guys love boobs too. I'm serious. I know that sounds weird, but it's true. Gay guys are quite often fascinated, obsessed, and/or hillariously amused by breasts. I swear it seems to me that straight chicks are the only ones not hip to just how awesome boobs are. Straight guys love them. Gay guys love them. Lesbians love them. Bisexuals love them. Straight girls generally just come off as bewildered wondering what's so great about them. It's kinda funny.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

So the straight one probably loves your boobs, and is into you at least a little, and the gay guy probably just loves your boobs.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Does it make a difference? Well, yeah. The one who's gay is most definitely not trying to have sex with you, and is not hitting on you. The one who's straight might be.

[LilKim]

No. I love breasts too. Just to look at. I love my own, but don't want to touch other girls. I hate when a girl hugs me and hers squish into mine.

And yes, I have a hard time understanding why gay dudes like them.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

That one I can't answer. I can probably ask next time I have an opportunity, but for now I can't answer for sure. My only guess is because they're fun, they're pretty, and above all else, because men don't have them, so they're a little fascinating.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Hey, thanks for the Best Answer award. I appreciate it.

[NuttLicker]

Because tits RULE

[Anonymous]

Most girls I hug are shorter than me, so it would be really out of the way, noticeable, and kind of awkward for me to drop my head down to lay on top of her boobs.

But to answer the question, why else do you think we want to be close to your boobs? I'm sure you aren't stupid and can hazard a guess as to why a guy would do this.

[Ineedcompanions5]

But is it okay for me to lay my head on a woman's boobs? What if I were to be polite and ask you, like, "may I please lay my head on your boobs and hold you?" And if you were to say, "okay," would it still be okay?

[Janson]

I honestly never do that. I'd rather not get slapped

[Anonymous]

probably make a good pillow idk. I laughed at your picture lol

[Opinion Owner]

Is he actually gay or is he just pretending to be gay so girls won't mind him doing that

[LilKim]

He is gay.

[Anonymous]

Because boobs are awsome... if I could I would sleep on them every night, and refuse to use a traditional pillow.

[Anonymous]

I like to lay my head in between them a little more.

[Anonymous]

Let's face it.

Our boobs feel like pillows.

[Cottoncandydreams]

Probably for a sense of closeness and comfort.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Plus, boobs

[Cottoncandydreams]

lol yes lets not forget that

[Anonymous]

Because boobs are soft and warm.

[SaltandVinegar]

comfy and warm lol