What does it mean if a guy offers to do a favor for you?

[Anonymous]

I noticed with some of my guy friends if we are talking about a problem I'm having or if I'm tired or stressed or something they offer to meet up with me no matter how late it is or to get me coffee or something, even if it's late.

It's a very nice offer and I appreciate it! I'm just curious if guys do this for girls they are strictly friends with. And I think it would be different if I have known these guys forever, but I've only known them got a couple months.

Do their offers imply something more than friends? Some guys friends who I am VERY close to and are like my brothers will talk to me and that's it, if it's late and I'm upset about something they don't offer to take me out to make me feel better so I'm just curious.

[Jager66]

Speaking for my self, I've got no interest in being a woman's regular emotional napkin unless she is family or having sex with me. So IMO these guys are probably very interested in you and you are benefiting from them liking you as more then a friend.



There are lots of different types of people out there tho with just as many possible motivations so who knows, this isn't really enough to make a judgement on.

[Paullus]

hm.. I mean I can't give you a definite answer but if a guy is going out of his way to be with you that might indicate he likes you and just wants to be around you :)