I'm nowhere near skinny and never have been, and I don't see that at all, lol. I get chased by all kinds of guys, sometimes a few at a time, even if just briefly or in a purely sexual way sometimes. Like there's usually no shortage of male attention. I got very little attention from guys until after high school, but I just chalk that up to the typical high school 'herd' mentality a lot of high school aged kids tend to follow. Most kids that age just openly like what they're 'supposed' to like, even if they actually also like things that are less accepted and not the norm in high school society, openly being attracted to bigger girls as well as small ones, for example. High school and the real world are very different places with very different mindsets and code of conduct, social 'rules', etc. But once high school was over and I hit 'adulthood', I notice tons of guys of all types who are into bigger girls, and who aren't ashamed about it. I see plenty of other bigger girls snag good quality men [take that as you will, they can be any body type].
I'm not thin at all. I'm 5'7" and weigh probably right now about 190 pounds, 38C, 40 inch hips, but my waist isn't like super defined or anything, not noticeably 'super curvaceous' at all, except maybe my legs which are fairly toned and shapely. I have a chubby belly, but not overly so, and I know how to dress to flatter what I have to work with, lol. I have a lot of muscle because I was really athletic up through adolescence [but always with plenty of chub no matter how active I was], so I guess I carry it well, but there's no mistaking me for a smaller girl, I'm just BUILT bigger, aside from the chub, I'm sturdy but soft. I've had guys of all different body types express interest at one time or another, from bone thin to much bigger.
What, in your words, makes you feel like men never go after girls who have meat on their bones? I just wonder, because even if I didn't ever get attention from guys, I still see it around me all the time. Big girls of the world aren't just all forever alone, lol.
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I see questions like this a lot on here but to be honest, it's all about personal prefrence where I'm from. about 50% of the guys where I'm from go for thin, and the other 50% go for thick, I don't know why that's just the way it is, for example would you go for someone outside your personal preference? It's all about personality and attitude, you could be thin and beautiful but if you're arrogant about it, then that's the one asking "why do guys only go for thick girls" if your attitude sucks.. Then you suck.
The reason we like "skinny" girls (and "skinny" really means a lean girl with a beautiful bubble-butt) has the same reasons as why girls like a trained hard-body man with a skin tone, square jaw etc.
IT'S SIMPLY HOT !
And like the others here said ... being fat does not equate being a "real woman with curves"
Lol... is this a troll question? Why are women "with curves" more womanly than women who are more petite? There are beautiful women with slight curves and beautiful women with lots of curves. If by curvy you mean overweight then it's the same reason why women don't go for overweight men.
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"real women with curves"
You're putting skinny women down, just because men in your area usually do not go for your body type.
That isn't the way to go.
Insulting others to boost your self esteem.
Just because a woman isn't curvaceous doesn't make her less of anything.
Men have their preferences and their types.
I'm sure there are plenty of men that would go for your figure, you just have to keep looking.Personally, I like bouncing girls on my knee, and I'd get a ruptured ACL trying that with a lot of the girls these days.
Seriously, the thin girls are healthier, more together, and often have naturally shadowed and curved eyes, which I adore.
Not to mention they tend to look more alluring in clothes, which mostly are designed for them.When girls such as yourself compare skinny to curvy, it becomes apparent that by curvy you mean chubby/chunky/fat
Guys typically don't like fat girls
That's lifeBecause most girls who call themselves curvy are just plain fat and disgusting.
It's just a lie they tell themselves to sleep at night.Its for the same reason that women always go for extremely good looking and/or super rich guys, even if the guy happens to be an alcoholic, drug addict, rapist or murderer.
In my case, it doesn't matter to me if she's skinny or curvy, as long as she isn't obese.I didn't know men -always- did this, but if you're right and they do, I would think it's because fit and healthy people in general seem more prospective and attractive :P
Do you mean men in general or the guys that you want?If so, give the guys you don't want a chance because it's obvious the guys you want don't want you .
"instead of real woman with curves" ugh Go jump off a bridge. Why does having extra weight make you a "real woman"?
I'm a fan of thin with curves, so not sure how that figures in.
Men go for girls with curves too! just not fat girls
Start hanging out with black men. We like women with some meat on their bones
They don't. Two words: Devin Brugman. The girl is like walking viagra. And I'd call her the epitome of a woman with curves. Which is different from a fat cow.
Why do women want Brad Pitt's face on Channing Tatum's body!
stop being lazy and lose weight
Pretty much every girl I have chased has curves
This is why I only date black men.
Most women have curves though. I think.
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