My boyfriend invited me to his Christmas work party, guys is this serious?

[Olya363]

does this mean he wants to get serious? or is committed? or what?! I'm just confused now... We've been dating since April and I'm 22 he's 24 but I Haven't had sex yet with him (or ever) so do you think he want to show he cares about us? because he is very non-verbal and uncommunicative...

Ive never been invited to this type of thing

guys this is a good sign right? that he wants me to go with him to this sort of thing..

[NitroBlade]

It depends. He may feel comfortable around you and want to include you in his life now, even if he doesn't communicate it.

Or, if he doesn't like his co-workers he may be asking you to be there so he feels a bit better when he doesn't strike up a conversation with other people. This would mean he feels comfortable around you and wants you there to support him.

Does it mean he's committed? Well that's stretching it. Clearly he doesn't want to break up with you at the moment and could see something in the near future (2 months from now). However you're reading into it too much. If he starts taking you to all those events, to dinner with his family, basically involving you in his life a lot, then maybe it is a sign that he's committed.

However the fact that you've come here makes it clear that you aren't talking to him about this. The worse thing girls can do in a relationship is read too much into every little thing. If you want things to be serious and aren't sure, then you have to talk to him.

[renaissancejoe623]

Maybe. He is involving you in his life, and getting a feel for how you are going to fit into his future. He is testing if he can see himself working in an office, with a suit on, mon-fri, and coming home to you. The big question is whether or not he likes the people he works with. Is he friends with them, do they ever hang out? Because if he doesn't, he could be trying to get closer to his boss or just not lose face in front of his coworkers. If he doesn't have friends there, then he needs you as a buffer for what is going to be a crappy party. But, if he has friends there, then you are just being assimilated into his life piece by piece because he wants everything he cares about all together at once.

[Olya363]

:( Well, he says how he hates most the people he works with lol. it's a real estate job...

[renaissancejoe623]

Either way I stand by the notion that he is bringing you into areas of his life that were previously girlfriend-free. Look at it like that.

[Ingrid422]

''does this mean he wants to get serious? or is committed?"

No. To be honest, I think it only means that it's a ''bring your date'' kinda party and since he DOES have a date, he wants to follow the trend. Why would he go alone if he can bring you alone anyway. If anything, it means he's confident that you two will still be together when Christmas comes, as he's probably RSVP for you or something. Don't read too much into it.

[Ingrid422]

*bring you along

[madhatters4]

it's a good sign that he wants to sort of be public with you.

i think the fact that you've been dating since April is the first sign that he is into you. I think this is more a sign that he would like to have a date for this event...

i do think it's potentially a good sign but it could also be that he doesn't want to go tot he party alone...but even then it's a good thing that he wants you there.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

It means he wants you to go to the Christmas work party.

[Cromartie]

It would take a woman to overcomplicate something like this.

[Anonymous]

It could be a good sign. Or it could be neutral. It depends on his personality really. I wouldn't have any problem inviting a girl to my work party even if I wasn't serious with her at all.

[SaltandVinegar]

It means he wants you to come with him and that's it. It is not an indication of whether he wants to get serious or become more committed.