My ex girl unblocks me from Facebook but doesn't add me?

[Anonymous]

So my ex girl friend unblocks me from Facebook after two years and a half almost three of blocking me. I found it weird because I was just search for a friend of mines and as I was typing she comes up. It seems like she was creeping up on me or something. So yea people why did she unblock me after two years and a half almost three years. Does she still have feelings, just curious about my life and just friends. Cause honestly if I unblocked an ex it means I still like her alittle bit and curious because two years is a long time

[meowcow]

Unlikely she has feelings for you. What's more likely is that she came across her block list and didn't want to see your name again, so she removed it from the list.

Girls are less likely than guys to regret a breakup 3 years after. When girls break up, the spend a few months crying about it to their friends and move on. The guy is no longer in their minds after that. When a guy breaks up, they go celebrate their new freedom, go partying, drinking or hookups. Then, if they can't find a stable relationship 3-5 years later, they start thinking about their ex, and whether it was a bad decision. Problem is, she's moved on, and the guy is still reminiscing the old days with her.

[Asker]

That doesn't make sense, if she moved on why unblock me

[meowcow]

I just said. Your name makes her sick, so she didn't want to see your name on her blocked list anymore.

[standUP]

Sorry to burst hope but Facebook does this sometimes. When it does a big upgrade over their entire system they will unblock people and have posted personal posts of friends that I have hit hide from timeline, as well as pics been re added that I have deleted ... So that's what I think it is.

[Asker]

what yea right, your just jealous get the heck out of here hater

[standUP]

HEY,I just gave my experience... YOU WANT a HATER? whatever Mr.Does still have feelings... well after two years...give it up... pathetic !

[Asker]

Sure thing

[bettybets]

It doesn't mean she was "creeping up on" you. She did it because she's no longer angry/hurt etc about y'all breaking up and possibly just wants the option for communication to be there if you choose to talk to her. For me, I still do like my ex but that's not why I unblocked him. It was just so that he could know he can contact me if he wanted. (I saw him at a mutual friend's get together and he seemed okay with me so I thought it was a good time to unblock him).

I ended up messaging him after seeing him at another mutual friend's apartment and then while we were talking to each other he sent me a friend request.

[Asker]

If she wasn't creeping then what eles could it be cause your statement doesn't make sense

[bettybets]

My statement makes plenty of sense. I said she basically wants to open communication. She could have simply thought of you and realized she was over everything and unblocked you. That's it. She doesn't have to creep on you.

[Asker]

No she unblocks me after she got out another relationship, so yea she still have feelings if she wants open communication

[bettybets]

Be careful with that then. She could potentially just want to use you for a rebound.

[Asker]

Well how

[bettybets]

Just keep your wits about you and don't fawn over everything she says, y'know? Take everything with a grain of salt and look at it superficially. Don't read into anything.

[lalalolita]

She was probably creeping to see what you are up to and also left it to see if you would creep her and add her. Or maybe she just saw you on her block list and decided it didn't need to be that way after all that time. But most likely the creeping situation.

[Asker]

is it because she still has feelings

[lalalolita]

I wouldn't necessarily say that. I have done the same thing unblocking an ex. She's probably just curious and waiting to see if you add or message her if you're curious too. There's probably some TINY part of her that still cares.

[Asker]

so if a tiny part cares then she still has feelings

[lalalolita]

I wouldn't say that it means she still has feelings but she obviously used to so she's probably just curious to see what you're doing now and how it compares to her

[Asker]

curious means there is feelings there, why be curious if there is no feelings there

[lalalolita]

It's doesn't have to mean she wants to get back together she just may have a curiosity because you were once close

[Asker]

she may not want to get back together now but in the future she may want to , why eles unblock me

[lalalolita]

Has she reached out to you? Do you want to get back with her?

[Asker]

No she hasn't, she is probably nervous and waiting for the right time

[ashblog06]

it doesn't mean anything. for all you know, her current guy wanted to see you.

if she wants to get back , she'll contact you, wouldn't she.

and I suggest you don't pursue her. you broke up for a reason.

[Asker]

There is no other guy

[badboylover]

ADD HER, look if unblock an ex it is because I still like him but I don't want him to know so I wait and see if he would add me so far nothing and it sucks but she does not have to feel this way ADD HER.

[Asker]

So your statement means she still likes me but waiting game for me to add her. But am not going to add her, I know if I wait she will add cause why eles unblock me

[badboylover]

she added you to see if you still care. do you still care and love her?

[Asker]

She didn't add me she just onblo

She didn't add me she just unblock me

[badboylover]

she ublocked you but did not add you to see if you care about her enough to add her

[Asker]

Well in time she will add me cause it would be werid if I add her cause she would think I would be searching for her

[badboylover]

what about getting a friend to sugest you as a friend to her on fcebook nd ee if he says yes

[Asker]

No that would be obvious even without an brain

[badboylover]

well wht is the piont of asking ht to do if your not even going to take it

[AdamThomas]

She might have deleted her old profile and made a new one.

[Asker]

no its the same profile and sure of it

[Anonymous]

maybe it was a accident...

[Asker]

It was no accident

[Opinion Owner]

how do you know for sure? lol

[Asker]

It's not OK dam

[Opinion Owner]

keep calm

[Asker]

Yea yea

[Anonymous]

Maybe just curious. Do you like her?

[Asker]

I don't if I like her mentally, but yea why curious

[Opinion Owner]

If you don't like her or want to get back with her, why do you care? Is it your ego?

[Asker]

I clearly said I didn't know so it's not a ego thing

[Opinion Owner]

Just get on with your life then. Why care? It seems you want her to still like you and want to get some reassurance from this site.