Have you ever met a girl like described?

[Theguyoverthere]

It's a common joke that girls wear revealing clothes then get mad when they are hit on.

How many of you have first hand seen such a scenario? What was it like?

[PinkAcid]

i don't feel like I should have to wear a burka to stop men purposely and obviously staring at my chest/legs/wherever else trying to catch a glimpse of anything and mentally undressing me in the summer when its so hot girls are out in skirts, vest tops, shorts and dresses but I don't get when girls wear booty shorts (the ones where your butt cheeks are exposed), bras with net tops or very low cut tops with a too small bra so their cleavage is almost bursting out complain about being stared at

so basically this (normal stuff I shouldn't have to put up with pervy stares from): link link vs this (over the top and attentionseeking): link

[confugirl]

I haven't seen it myself, but some former friends went clubbing all the time in skimpy dresses and then told me how mad they were that all guys just wanted sex. That's also amusing, I think. I don't think women should completely cover up, nor should they be shamed for how they dress, but with skimpy clothing comes a different kind of attention and that's just something we have to deal with. Become the person that your ideal guy/girl would be attracted to.

[Moonrisekitten]

I think those girls secretly want that attention. They know what they are doing. Unless they're just stupid

[TedStar]

One of my ex's. She wore a figure hugging Cat woman suit (similar to Halle Berry's on) to a dress up party. She want to look sexy for me, but there were some guys cat calling and making her feel uncomfortable. That night I also felt so angry and so bad. Here was a girl who just wanted to express her sexuality without people being rude about it. She was a pretty wild girl, but that night cut her up

[Lafemmedeschats]

But at the same time, those guys saw her dressed up productively and acted as they thought she wanted: attention. If you don't like that attention you really shouldn't dress in such a way

[TedStar]

There is giving attention, then there is acting like an animal. Where is the decorum? Actually what you said reminds me of people that justify rape by saying that the victim enticed them by wearing revealing clothes ( not saying that you do). Again where is the decorum?

[celestialdaeva]

You make a very important point. There is attention and then there is acting like an animal. Many times men don't just pay more attention; they lose all their manners.

[RedThread]

Great answer Ted.

[aMuse]

No girl has every made a fuss over me looking at her. They're obviously fishing. The thing is you can catch a big and a small fish with a small hook... They just want the big fish but get bites from all sorts of guys as well. It's their tactics, if they give you shit just laugh at them.

[OpenToSuggestion]

I've had girls in revealing clothes give me dirty looks making out that I was checking them out even when I wasn't.

I think some girls do it just for that reason. So they can go mad at someone.

[kangaru]

there are girls who are like that, but if they wear revealing clothes it bound to attract unwanted attention. the kind of clothing we wear , will attract the kind of people to us.

[Libra89]

if a woman wears tight clothing guys will see her as a sex object. if she's more reserved she will attract a more decent type of a guy

[1337DirtAlliance]

False

[Lafemmedeschats]

I agree. I've yet to see an actually classy guy go after a slutty girl

[kairon156]

false. I'm a "decent" guy but I like sexy girls too. just because I like a girl for being sexy doesn't mean I'll treat her as an object than a love intrest.

[Moonrisekitten]

Sexy doesn't just mean having you're tits out though...

[Brookeelise]

yeah I've seen it we all have. its weird.

but when I wear revealing clothes it is for MYSELF and confidence! Not for creepy pervs