You gave her the gift. She probably just got used to wearing it every day or she really likes it. I still wear some things that my exes gave me because I like the stuff they gave me (though I try to avoid wearing the things they got me in front of them).
I know it's not very considerate for her to do that, but it's not like she's going to throw it away or give it back. It's hers, let her do with it what she wishes.
(On a side note, I remember talking to a male coworker once about how his ex girlfriend kept a nice set of lingerie he bought her after she broke up with him. He was pissed that she kept it, which I totally don't understand. It's not like he could re-gift it to the next girl. No girl with self respect would want to wear something that used to belong to their boyfriend's ex, especially not lingerie).
Maybe she just likes it. When my relationship ended, we decided to keep the things we gifted each other with no further sentimental involvement. Sometimes there's no hidden message or anything personal. Or maybe she still has a place in her heart for you and keeps it as a memory. From the sound of it, you're still upset after 2 years and fb stalking her (admit it, we all do that). So who's to say she isn't doing the same? If it bothers you, ask her to return it. If not, don't make much more of it unless she goes out of her way to contact you.
Well first of all its a necklaces that you gave her so she is entitled to ware it whenever she wants. She probably really likes it and thinks it looks good on her. If she has been wearing it for 2 years maybe its one of those things you just leave out without noticing its on since its been on for so long
It's not *your* necklace, and so what anyway?
If it bothers you that much, maybe next time you give a girl a nice piece of jewelry, you ought to explain that actually you're only allowing her to *borrow* it from you, just for as long as the two of you are still together?
To be honest, she probably feels like she's earned it after putting up with you for so long, and that it's the very least you owe her.
It could be that she really likes the item,Because I wear the rings she bought me and I have no feelings for her now at all :D
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If the necklace, has no tie to you like its your name or something like that, then its just a necklace that she must really like and she has found a way to see it as just a necklace and not a gift from you. Once she gets a serious boyfriend she will stop wearing the necklace because she will want to be sold out to her new guy. Trust me.
Trust me. To her it's just a necklace that she loves. I kept all my ex's gifts and I wear them only because I like them. None of them has any meanings even if it's anniversary gifts. My boyfriend still has clothes left by his ex girlfriends and I would still wear them if I forgot to bring clothes when staying over. It does not bother me because I know they are just objects.
since when do gifts stay the givers property?
its hers and has been for the past two years ever since you gave it to her, get over it. its just a piece of jewellery she likes that's all.
When you give people a gift...especially one they really like, don't expect it to be thrown away
unless they really hate you.
I have a few gifts from men of past relationships. The items are mine and when it is cold the sweater is warm. Sorry, maybe it is a woman thing.
you should feel good because that means she still has feelings for you...you can actually tease the other guys she's going out with about it :P
maybe she just likes it...
probably has nothing to do with you
Dude, like I have no idea. You bought her a gift and she still wears it. If she sucks so bad move on with your life. You sound obsessive and whipped.
Just let her be.
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