Boyfriend goes MIA. Is this he end? Should I call him out? Or just treat him with indifferent?

[Anonymous]

We are suppose to meet today and he hasn't give me any details. Last time we communicate was 2 days ago when I ask him for details and something else. He replied and say he will give me the details later and he will get the things done for me.

Is he too chicken to breakup? Should I call him? Or just let him go?

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+1 y

OMG... he just text me and say he slept in cos he set the wrong alarm time... and saying he will get ready and come over.. .WTF he really took me for granted...

[Pedantic]

TWO DAYS? Its totally over! You're history! He's probably off married to another with three kids by now.

hahhaha, j/k :)

I think you should continue to take a "wait and see" approach. Your high expectation of a breakup suggests the relationship might have been a bit rocky. Let it go a couple more days and then touch bases.

Now on this next thing I'm not saying you are, but -if- you are one of those people who tries to anticipate a breakup so you can breakup first (the who dumped who game) I strongly do not recommend that. Only do it for your own reasons based on your own un/satisfaction level.

[Asker]

I did express my feelings I told him I enjoy the other "him" when he was expressive and eager to get in contact. he said he will come talk to me in person because he doesn't want anymore misunderstanding. However we didn't have that talk because his dog die the next day, he came but I just tried to cheer him up instead of talking about this.

The week after we talked he admit he has cool off but not sure why, then he said because I said I don't wanna get married ever. I clarified that with him

[Asker]

After clarifying it he seems affectionate again but during the week his text seems aloof and yea we are suppose to meet today and no word...

[Pedantic]

He probably feels obligated to have that conversation because he promised he would (obligatory keeping promises), but he's probably wondering what for if he is seeking a wife and you are not going to be it. At least you get an amicable breakup due to differing life goals.

[Asker]

I clarified with him by telling him it's not that I don't ever want to get married, I will only consider it with the right guy. he said he understood me. that's why I'm very confused now.. or he pretend he understaood?

[Asker]

I made plans with a friend later if he still keeping his words and wants to see me I can see him after I catch up with my friend..

I'm really tempted to call him to see what's going on.. but I really want to keep my dignity...

[Asker]

I also asked if he wants out last week he denied it by saying I watched too much movies... why coudln't he say yes..

[Pedantic]

You could probably touch bases now and see how things are.

[jayzee]

Wait for some time

[Asker]

how should I respond to him when / if he do get in contact?

what he did was completely disrespectful and rude...

[jayzee]

May be he is in a tough situation. Wait for him to give an explanation. So hold your breath for some time

[Asker]

So I can assume today is cancelled then? And don't contact him?

[jayzee]

See. He fcuked up.

[Asker]

He fucked up more later. Before we meet his dad wants him to do something and he couldn't leave the house so we canceled