Okay my boyfriend is 26 and acts 16. He binge drinks each night stays out all night long. plays beer pong. Throws keg parties and hangs out with college kids. He is the most immature man I have ever meet. I am like a mom to him. I cook for him,clean for him, do his laundry I make the bed I fold his clothes for him and I pick out clothes for him to wear and lay it on the bed for him like a 5 year old. Now don't get me wrong he loves me so much. He is super affectionate like he loves holding me and cuddling me he buys me flowers, calls me beautiful he loves to hold my hair and hanging out with me. I get a ton of hugs and kisses and we always hold hands and each day he tells me stuff like I never thought it was possible for anyone to be so beautiful. And he says he loves me a thousand times a day. But the problem is he is such a baby he doesn't act his age like each night he drinks so much and eats so much as well. He drinks well over 12 beers a night he is always incredibly drunk all the time he drinks like a college kid. He doesn't work and refuses to look for a job so he sits at home all day long. Also he throws wild house parties without my permission he invite strangers over to our house and after each party I have to clean up. He stays out all night Long on the weekend and comes back at like 12 noon the next day. He parties with college kids. Though they don't really like him they just use him to buy them drinks. It's so sad to see this man who at 26 refuses to grow up. He did not have a childhood or a normal high-school or college experience due to Aspergers and social isolation and extremely over protective parents that he never got to have any fun whatsoever. He didn't go to a single college party or dint even kiss a girl until 22 (that was me) I was his first time sex as well. I like to think I help him make up for lost times I have sex with him around 3 times a day. I would prefer 2 but he throws a screaming crying fit if he doesn't get sex. I do love him but right now he doesn't believe he is 26 he believes he is 18 and doesn't want to grow up whatsoever. He doesn't want a committed relationship and he feels stuck with me like he wants to go out and party all night long and he wants casual sex. The other day he told me he wishes he could have one night stands and friends with benefits I was so hurt by it. I LOVE him so much but I can tell he just needs time to be young and party and have sex with strangers. He loves me a lot as well and I want to marry him. What should I do please help should I let him go so he can go have fun or should I try and work it out with him
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