I think you will just have to accept that this is where he is in his life right now and if you don't like it you're going to have to remove yourself from the situation rather than endlessly hope he will change.
No one ever changes because someone else wants it for them, they only do it when they truly want it for themselves.
You're going to have to accept him as this or leave. Just like it wouldn't be fair for him to want for you to change into a more "fun, alcohol drinking, partier" it's also not fair for you to want him to change.
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Dude, you need to get him out of your life. This man is a child and an extremely selfish one at that.
Run.
Why do you love and want to marry an alcoholic? You can do so much better than him!
You should let him go
Youre gonna have to let him go. he has too many dealbreakers
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How does he pay for all of this alcohol? He sounds like a user.
Unfortunately the mental maturity of an Aspie is roughly 1-10 years behind their physical age. Best advice is to hope he changes. Otherwise he might become a liability.
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