Can't get a girlfriend? Am I cursed?

[itsweird182]

I think I am cursed or something, I am 20 years old and have only had one girlfriend for a short amount of time, 2-3 months then she broke up with me. I am in college full time and work part time, I have friends, I own my own car, I am definitely not a loser, I just can't seem to attract females. I'm not really the party type, maybe that has something to do with it? I don't think I am ugly, check my picture if you want in my profile. I just feel like a huge loser and a loner because I never have anyone. I'm in college at the moment, where's there's tons of girls, meeting them is one thing, but most of them are either in relationships already or not interested. I'm sh*t outta luck I think.

[authentic]

It is the same as driving, you end up where you attention is given to. You don't drive with your eyes closed, and say, "I am happy to end up any place." Same case with dating.

Suggestion : Answer this question, "What kind of girl do I want ?", in as much detail/clarity as possible. Focus on your answers (like how you drive, focus but not stressed out) until she shows up. Make no compromise.

Actually, it is even simpler than driving, you don't have to check the rear mirror, or your blindspots, nor attend to a 3-second following rule... :)

[Anonymous]

Amen brother I have the same problem 62 150 40 years old have lot of guy friends but no girlfriend there just not attracted to me I even lift weights drive a 2016 camaro convertable good luck finding someone I just accepted I will be single

[sunlovingme]

You are handsome and if I was 20, id take a chance on you :). In any event, I think you are just going to have to be more assertive, you know the saying that it takes 10 nos to equal one yes. Go out on dates, try to date more than one girl at at time, until you narrow down to just one. Don't try to go the friend route as you'll get stuck in that phase. Sometimes you just have to act confident. I can tell you by experience the guys we sometimes want are the ones that are hard to get... There is nothing wrong with you don't worry...

[Clumsykoala]

I don't think so. Just take a breather no one is cursed or anything anyways just think to yourself and your personality try something new get to know more people but you'll find her someday it's better to just wait and maybe that one person of yours is in one of your classes you've just got to look twice before you miss her. Don't worry everybody has a someone maybe when you get a job you'll find her at your work or something doesn't matter the numbers of how many gfs you've had just matters if you've found the one

[EmoBarbie]

Your cute and you just haven't fond miss right yet just cause you don't have a girlfriend doesn't make you a loser or anything just mean your right girl is still out there so get all down you'll find someone like they say "There someone out there for us all"

[EmoBarbie]

Sorry meant "don't get all down"

[Anonymous]

Haha, I am 22 and I was about to ask the very same question. Obviously I am not going to find the answer here...