The way they act. Generally speaking. Compare yourself to a handsome white guy who racks up the girls. Exactly.
The way they act. Generally speaking. Compare yourself to a handsome white guy who racks up the girls. Exactly.
I like the intelligent, worldy, well traveled educated guys. I like the healthy eating habits, the preppy style.I also like the manners and the desire to succeed in the middle, upper class white guys.
I like all good looking guys, but unfortunately theyr'e aren't as many educated and upper class black men as there are white men. And the "thug" life ghetto image is popular with too many black men. If a black man acted like the typical preppy educated white guy then I would be attracted to him.
For me it's not race or color, it is manners, treatment, education and class plus athletic builds and class. My family is black and upper class from the British Carribean so I am not coming to America to marry anyone ghetto acting regardless of color.
Also like Mickii, I like dark haired white guys who can tan, its sexy.
I'm just going to say it. I like pale skin and dark hair. It's just sexy. Especially if the guy has large dark eyes and dark full brows and lashes. It's weird and oddly specific but I've come into contact with quite a few guys that fit not only that criteria but other physical attributes I call bonuses (i.e. Hot body, slightly full lips). Anyway, that's type...though personality is on a whole 'nother spectrum pertaining to why I like men (in general) haha
I don't often hear the big eyebrows part as a plus lol yay
i'm black and I love white guys cause there nice know how to treat a lady and what turns me on is that they can be very rough in bed
i'm black and I love whith guys cause there nice know how to treat a lady and what turns me on is that they can be very rough in bed
Hey I'm a black girl and My boyfriend is white. He's the sweetest guy ever. I dated him because of his personality and his charming heart. He approached me after I waved him over. I felt him looking and so I gave him the chance and he jumped at it. I wasn't looking and neither was he necessarily but love just happened for us. We ironically are alike a lot to the point where I knew what he was going to say and what he felt and what he likes etc. and vice versa. I still do very much love black men and I'm still attracted but it wasn't working out and I decided to be open and try and not just flirt anymore because the attraction to other races was always there. FYI If a black girl flirts back ITS MORE THAN AN INVITATION but don't assume she's going to sleep with you unless she's truly pushing that point and that's what you would want. As any relationship it will be hard to find a person who you are compatible with regardless of race. But if you want to know women are the same as in how they are but you have to know black women will stick it out with you and they want 50/50 they will not back down all the times and will put their 2 sense. You just have to know the type of woman you want whether it be domineering, passive, or passive aggressive, submissive etc. When it comes to approaching them don't try a corny line or try to game them up, just be genuine and honest about how you feel because you will get further and its more respectful. What you see on TV is a big ASS PORTRAYAL tho there are women who are like that but its like that for all races not just ours. Yes we are different in public, bedroom, conversation and physically but my boyfriend loves it. I asked my boyfriend if I was his first black girlfriend and I was but he saw me and saw beautiful as where lots of white black Hispanic and other races (men) saw a fxck toy and basically what's displayed in media today. He loves my personality my smile and the physical difference with my rear but it was never about the color though he thinks my brown skin is beautiful. If you get the balls to approach her as you would want a guy to do so for your mother you will get further than you think and she will contemplate you. Be a chivalric which is basically open your mouth and talk to her after you guys feel comfortable enough ask those questions you were always wanted to ask abt cultural differences and don't assume or say something inappropriate- ASK First she will appreciate it and you will to. Don't be afraid to speak. They really just want an honest man and to complete them P.S. * Some have limits to their Freaktivity- anal is not an option for some!* it damn sure wasn't for me! Good Luck
I'm black and don't like a certain color of guy I like attractive guys not necessarily white. Unfortunately most the black guys I see aren't my type many of them are too much into the stereotype. I'm different and I want a guy that's different to. Fashionable girls go for Fashionable guys, and I am a fashion freak. It just so happens that a more white guys are fashionable.
Aww thanks lool
oh my gosh did I post this and forget ha ha jk that is word for word what I would say, well actually I talk too much and probably would have taken triple the space to say what you said <3
I have been in love with white men my whole life. The skin contrast is a turn on not going to lie. I always think of vanilla and butterscotch .yum! I love the bone structure on guys, both races can have that though but a lot more white guys have it from what I have seen. I love the eyes, blue, brown, green, w/e! I think it's the idea I want someone who is different than myself really. I guess I get bored just dating someone whose like myself. Although it's all still a beautiful thing.
White guys that are young, fit, tall, smart, funny, ambitious is what I like. White guys treat girls with respect (most of the time), look at me like they desire me for me rather than just for sex. I think of brad pitt, wentworth miller, hugh jackman, all very good looking white men. But I also think about shemar moore and tyson beckford who are really fine black men. ha ha I have to say that although a lot of white guys don't have too much lips to play around with, they like my lips a lot more LOL but they have a lot of other things that make up for their lips haha.
Overall, I am still more attracted to white men, and I find that white men that are attracted to black women make them even more hot. Brad pitt dated a couple of beautiful black women, therfore it makes him hotter lol. Also robin thicke suddenly gets even more hot than he already is by marrying paula patton. Prince maximillian, more hot.
Anyways, hope this made your day! bye!
Well I don't date myself,but I must say many black women especially the dark skinned ones appeal to me,the color difference to my fair skin is very attractive as are their features,but I also find black women are usually a lot more friendly and more open minded than white women as all of my female friends are black.
Everything you said here is 100% how I feel about white guys. Lol
I really loooove blond guys or white ones with really dark hair. pale skin I find surprisingly as attractive as tanned. I also agree the way they blush is a huge turn on. But honestly speaking I know a lot of black girls who look down on black girls who like white guys. my family sometimes makes comments which really sucks cause it came to a point that I started feel guilty like something was wrong with my preference. But at this point of my life I'm almost 19. I really don't care anymore if that's what I like, that's what I love and wouldn't change it for the world.
Same here. My family doesn't really understand but my mom eventually came around but my dad still doesn't wanna believe it. Oh well . I'm not gonna stop being myself for anybody. :) this is me; this is who I am and I'm not changing for anybody. :)
I am an 18 year old black girl, and I am not attracted to black guys at all. They just...I don't know. I'm not attracted to them Phyisically at all. I don't even talk to them in school because of the way they act most of the time. But white guys are sooooo...different. I like the white guys with the long hair that they flip out of their eyes, their hair color is either blonde, sandy blonde, or brunettee. I'm OK with blue eyes guys, but green eyed guys are what makes me melt. I absolutely HATE pale guys. But the white guys with a sexy skin complection is right up my alley. The ones that play sports...mostly football, are my major turn ons, and they have to be smart. But basically what I think black girls can't resist about the white men is the hair and the eyes. I know that I can't...
Personally I love their pale skin. I think it's kinda sexy. And I looooove guys with brown hair and blue eyes. It's just so sexy how the blue eyes accent from the brown hair. Really makes them stand out :) yeah I've never been attracted to black guys. Like physically. I just love how white guys are different then me. It's so cute. Also I just love the idea of interracial couples. I can't wait til I find my white guy who I'm going to marry. :)
Haha, yeah. I'm a black girl too. honestly I couldn't date a black guy. I don't really care what he looks like. just as long as he's not black
Hello I'm a white guy bald,blue eyes European descent I love black women! Dated white women at first but after dating white women & always bein attracted to black girls since I was 13. I find black women are much sweeter,more loving &appreciate white men more.plus I love the color of the skin,attitude the full lips & full body.Black women are queens! I'm really tired of how they portray black girls on TV & video in disrespectful ways.alot of whit men look at black girls & women as f**k toys but black women should always treated like a woman & special like they are! Have a great dayveverybody!
I am white and I love black women. I am strictly into black girls. I love the voice. Whenever I hear black females talking, I always take the time to look because I love checking them out. I love the curves. I like thin or thick black women. It doesn't matter to me. Either body type is good for me. I love the color. I don't care how dark or light skinned, as long as you are black, my heart will skip a beat. I love the hair too. I love natural curly black hair. I like when girls wear the headband and have their hair picked out a little. I love braids. I like microbraids or the senegalese style. Doesn't matter if you drag a hot comb through your hair or use a relaxer or even have a weave. As long as it looks good. I love the attitude. By that I mean the whole mental demeanor. I don't mean I like to catch attitude. I just mean that as all of the mental processes. The confidence and ability to laugh and joke. Most black girls have that where as other colors don't. I just love black girls. I don't care for my own kind and I don't even remember the last time I ever checked out a white girl. They just don't engage my mind. I haven't approached many black girls. I'm 27 and have dated a few, but It's hard to tell if they are interested or not. Women are women. It's easy to know if a girl likes you, but I mean the intial interest. Guys don't like to get shot down and that sometimes stops me from talking to them, depending on the situation. Anyway, I'm in Chicago. If any of you fine ladies reads this and are here too, send a reply. I am an average looking guy. I'm in great shape and I think my body is pretty nice. I hit the gym daily.
I am a twenty three year old white guy, with medium/dark brown hair and hazel eyes, I am not very tall only 5'9 and I am not tan I hate being tan( I am pale), my hair was long, but I cut it to find a job. Anyways, I find black women extremely attractive, I would have no problem dating one. I even remember this one time I was riding home on the bus and this black girl was sitting next to me and she started talking to me and asked me if she could touch my hair, so I let her, but I never saw her again after that or got her e-mail, Myspace, Facebook Etc. I like black women they are sexy women. Any black girls interested in chatting add me on Yahoo Messenger firstname.lastname@example.org.
my very first girl friend was black I was like 9 or 10 I used to take her out to dinner with my alowence so all of you are ebony goddeses to me I love black girls but sadely never found another just boreing white girls
to be honest black girls are sexy as f***! always go for them if I see one
Finding these kinds of questions actually being asked seems stupid to me (especially on the internet). But I'm bored, so I'll contribute. I'll first start by saying that these kinds of questions only applies to certain parts of the world, mainly places with a history of overly exposed racism, for instance the U.S. , South Africa... etc.. The truth is beuty and atracttion is stimuli of chemicals that occur with in the human anatomy contributing variables such as phycologial factors (in the manner or way a person thinks) cultural factors (how much does a person rely on social norms to create opinions) and so on... basically society and culture play a large part in a persons concept of what or in this case who is beutiful or attractive and also innate instincts can also influence social pressures.. ex: a white male who grew up in a family that frowned upon 'interacial realitionships' but has a phyche of non-comformist therefore leading him to a rejection of these ideal ie..through innate proccess and therefore an attraction to other 'races' or an exposure of one 'race' to another through enviorment (think of the white guy that acts 'black') or media or both thefore absorbing some of that cultures ideas of beauty (not all men like big butts ladies!) now I said the geography was important because well were you live infuences people and how they think. I am american, but I guess I would be considered hispanic (my parents are both from the Dominican Republic, where btw about 79% of the population is what us americans would call of "mixed race" 12% 'black' and the rest "white and Native American", yes people you can't just conviniently categorize us 'hispanics' ). How you look in the Dominican Republic really does not matter, plp just really like sexing it up out there lol See both of my parents are in fact white (well my dad does look 'hispanic' I guess ) my mom on the other hand is very fair skinned, blonde hair and light green/blue eyes, I in fact look "white", talk "white" but I don't think I think white thought lol anyways this has always bothered me that plp hide their attraction to other people that look different from them with political correct rettoric "it what's on the inside that counts" blah blah bla.. simply most of the time it's a visual stimulation that stirrs up attraction, scientifially everything else is secondary. See I look white I have dated all types of girls ( and I do mean all types!) One of my most memorable Girlfriend was a black girl ( she was dominican, thought physically she looked 'black') and I've come to believe that the immediate attraction b/w BOTH of us was physical. She told me that she was always in to white guys althought she previous to me only had dated 'black' guys ( she was the one that dumped me btw, I think I wasn't "white enough" for her. ) - which brings me back to my point that culture also plays a big role, when I hear plp say I like (insert whatever race) because they are willing to do this or more fun or polite or cool
For someone so "geeky" your spelling is terrible...wow
Um I know my responds sounds geeky, but I'm a history/political science major srry for the obnouxious scientific refrences lol, anyways when people use labels to identify its usually because it is being being reinforced by their own personal experiences and popular culutre ( not all black men are loud,not even close to most them eithier! and laides white guys are assholes, trust me) all I meant to say with this frickin' huge essay is please don't constrict yourselfs, go out there and have some fun!!!!
Not sure if this is a male or female asking the question. However, I am a white male that's 19 years old. Women are beautiful and amazing regardless of what their ethnicity is. African American women carry a strong sense of individuality and strength around with them which in my mind is VERY appealing. At the same time, they want to be treated like women and not girls; this can be different from many white females who honestly (not as a stereotype or any harm mean't) can seem needy more often then not. Many different people make up a race and at the end of the day when it comes down to it a person is a person regardless of skin color; we're all humankind, you are attracted to them for who they are and not their background or race. It's a personal preference, if a white guy is more appealing then that's just how it is, and obviously the ladies below have their fine examples as their reasoning. But I have dated a lot more african american females then white, hopefully without this sounding superficial I think the contrast of skin color is so beautiful lol
AAAAAAAmen Drew! You said it! Black women are goddessess in thier own right! I'm in love with a black girl right now, and whenever I think of her I think of her as a panther goddess. She's all beauty and grace, smooth curves and skin black and smooth like a panther's silky fur. Her eyes like stars in the deep of the night sky. Black girls; have confidence! You are beautiful!