untouched as in virgin esqe types
untouched as in virgin esqe types
Whats wrong with being 'wholesome' 'cute' and 'innocent' ? Don't you think that's a bit stereotypical?
Well I listen to my guy mates and they say that these kind of girls are down to earth, not self absorbed and not high maintenance. They don't like chicks that want to sleep with them straight away, they want to get to know them before they take it to the next level.
And Sexyness can take you so far... Cos guys may take you for advantage if you act too sexy all the time and they won't care for your feelings as much... Looks fade when you want to know somebody at a intimate level...
And sometimes a guy just wants to settle down...
And each guy has his own unique preferences and it depends how define 'wholesome' 'cute' and 'innocent'...
Why do so many of you guys think the sexy girls are high maintenance, superficial and sluts and whores. I'm not the girl next door type but I'm also not high maintenance, I am independant, sexy and confident. I don't care if a guy doesn't spend a lot of time with me. I have no problem being dumped because I don't feel like anyone should get sad over something like that. I am sexually experienced but I don't have sex with people on the first night because if I do, I my self get disintersted in the person very quickly because he already gave me what I wanted. It's hard to explain the type of girl I am but you guys seem to all think the we're all sluts. Honestly, I don't even belive in that word. If you were in a relationship with me and you wanted to have sex and I let you, you are actually the easy one because if I was the one to ask you to have sex on the first night, you would have said "hell yeah". Who's themore easy gender. I don't want to be mean but it's true. Let's not call each other easy since you all seem to pin it down on the girl in every situation. Stuck up pricks.
Maybe because their looks suggest that if a guy has sex with her, his d*** won't fall off.
guys want someone to trust. a wholesome girl most likely won't be a lieing, cheating how. evolution. but also-- they arnt exactly the girls that get f***ed and pregnant at a young age.
You can bring them out in public introduce them to your mother,have a intellegent conversation with them and when get them alone they'll rock your world. girls who are wholesome can be physically attractive...don't think otherwise.I've seen some ugly sluts.
How can a girl sleep with a bunch of guys and be ugly? Doesn't that mean that the guys she's been with were the actual easy ones since they were willing to sleep with someone ugly? I think your brain disappeared, you should go find it.
To me, I'm not really into showing people I do bad things *wink wink* so on the outside, I act like I would never do anything, and in that case, I can work my way into situations without people getting suspicious. I think guys like the innocent thing because there pure, meaning they have no "experience" per say. Guys like the power over the girl, well, as long as there confident. Shy scrawny guys get intimidated by confident sexy girls.
Holy sh*t calm down
Do you know what's the worst kind of guy. A guy who thinks that they can cheat, sleep with a bunch of people, be a party animal and hit on a lot of girls and think it's okay but when a girl does the same thing, they think she's a slut or bitch. That's f***ed. Girls who express their sexuality and satisfy it are really cool people because they're not ashamed about it.
No nobody wants to a girls bitch boy. Confident girls are usally a girl with a chip on there soulder
i'm so shocked by some of these answers.
who wants a girl that sleeps around, shows her body to everyone, etc.?!
girls shouldn't be ashamed about having morals, and respect for themselves!
the 'cute wholesome' type is someone who cares for themselves and doesn't sink down to such a low degrading level.
and NO WAY in hell are these the "backup" girls for guys with low self esteem. being this type of girl doesn't mean that you are submissive or can't speak up for yourself!
Your correct its the slut party girl factor..
I think the guy who say these types of girls are probably backup girls for the low self-esteem guys is just some weirdo who has no idea. Most likely some meathead guy that just wants a fckdoll. He might as well write a book about social life on Mars.
Also, different folks = different strokes. My friend tells me his girlfriend is really hot. I don't find her one bit attractive. Our different perspectives are what makes us all different, and I'm glad I'm not attracted to his gf.
Wow. Guys, I don't think we're talking about a submissive, dependent little yes-woman here. It could mean she's just NOT a bitch and has some principles, is that really such a turn-off?
I smell a question-asker bias.
Simple, a man who wants to settle down AND/OR cares about more than sex in a relationship will be attracted to this type of girl.
I think every guy has a different definition for cute vs hot. Maybe it was never clearly explained. I think "cute" has more to do with the way a girl acts, and "hot" has to do with how a girl looks. I'd rather describe more specifically if someone really wanted to know. Personally, I'm more inclined to go for a girl with a subtle attractiveness. Something special about her that I can't immediately pinpoint or describe that makes me melt and gives me butterflies to the stomach. Maybe I'm curious, but that's what attracts me.
As for innocence, maybe some people like innocent girls because they can easily influence her. It's like a block of clay. You sculpt her the way you want to, or leave it the way it is. However, you can't reverse it once it dries. Perhaps these guys are freaks that want a utopian girlfriend for himself... I'd probably stay away from those 'innocence seekers.' Give me a natural, down to earth girl and I'd be happy with that.
I don't need some hoe that will cheat. And to the guy who was talking about low self-esteem: you do know that she mentioned "wholesome," right? That means a girl with morals. Girls with morals won't cheat. If anything, you're getting dumped if you're a sh*tty mate, but she won't cheat on you. Nobody in his right mind wants a girl that'll cheat... unless you don't care and are just in for the temporary sex.
This is a comment to katrina sanchez's comment to this answer. That is stupid, sorry. Cheating in a commited relationship is immoral. I agree that you can have other morals, but you can't pick and choose what a moral is for the most part. Morals are another name for "social mores", meaning what society as a whole says is right and wrong. Cheating is lying, and one bad choice might not make you an overall bad person, but it's still wrong.
Tht is like the nicest thing I've ever heard any guy say
Just cause a girl cheats doesn't mean that she doesn't have morals. It just means that having that kind of moral isn't important to her. Your answer implies that guys can be sh*tty and girls can't.
A good guy is usually attracted to this type of girl. I for one like "Good girls" more so than going after the bar flies.
When a man wants to settle down he usually realizes sluts are bad marriage material. Like they say you can't turn a ho into a housewife. Shit just don't turn out right.
I have no clue. To me, innocent is only fun if they're open to being corrupted ;)
What you describe instantly conjures up in my mind a stereotype of a country girl: socially conservative, sexually clueless, politically provincial, who's more at home on a farm than in a fast-paced, innovative, invigorating urban setting.
Most guys are attracted to this as it shows how open they are and how they won't screw with them or use crazy antics to get something out of them. Some guys also believe that they can turn the innocent girl into whatever they want them to be because they would be easy to change or be a challenge to change if they like that. Not much to say about it but that's how it is...
They make good caring girlfriends, they don't play games or make you jealous on purpose. Plus they have this innocence that just needs to be violated lol.
As a general rule most guys are attracted to this type of girl. The "girl next door" is the girl that is pretty, nice, attractive, 'homely'. It's probably some biological thing from being a good 'mother' to potential offspring.
Think about it the other way. A 'party' girl that drinks and smokes and does eccy tablets and comes home at 5am and sleeps till 3pm then does it all again might be fun to be around in the short term, but would you want to settle down with her?
And, here's a copy paste from another answer I did that feels appropriate. ----------------------- When my high school yearbook was being created, there was a poll for "most beautiful guy/girl" that everyone filled in. Rebecca was very very sexy. Everyone assumed that she'd win. Problem was, Rebecca was a bit of a pain in the butt. She wasn't mean, but she was very self centred and superficial. Always cared about being 'perfect'.
When the poll was held, Rebecca didn't win. Infact she came 3rd. Another girl, Lisa, won hands down (from memory something like 80% of the votes). Lisa was a 'bigger' girl, not fat, but not model thin. Thing is though, she was the sweetest nicest person on the planet. Always helped out, always said hello, not up herself.
I often tell this story to girls that think guys just care about looks, but here it applies about personality too. Guys do like good looking girls, and we'll instinctually notice a sexy girl, but at the end of the day, a 'nice' girl is far better then a bitch. We'll have a one night stand with the bitch, we'll marry the nice girl.
Guys are the opposite of that. Ik that is what I fall for and I'm a pretty serious and determined person. My friends call me a hard ass because I have lifted wieghts 2 times in one day. SO I don't know if that answers your question but yea haha
Yeah morning and evening. a lot of guys do that including myself. not uncommon or really hard assed besides what you get from squats
Its just that they feel less intimidated cute girls are more approachable and usually seem a lot more accepting of others... its a cop out
Those kind of girls are keepers...wife material. When a guy that's smart enough to know better is ready to settle down, that type of girl is what he'll look for.
First off, its a challenge-- I really see no point in dating a girl who bones you the night you meet. These innocent girls create hurdles to jump, plus, we guys always think we'll discover some hidden nympho in there :) Anticipation makes the d*** grow hard, and the longer we have to squirm (to a point), the more excited we are when that night finally comes.
Now, sex aside, if I'm dating a girl- I'm gonna want someone real. For me, nothing beats a good-old country girl with morals and intelligence when it comes to a relationship. They don't bad mouth my friends, they probably aren't gonna cheat, they want more than money (whether or not I have any), and the odds are they are gonna generally care about me, my feelings, and my ideas. In other words, the kind of girl you want to marry and spend the rest of your life with
Maybe a girl next door type won't have sex with you the first night. But a lot of sexy, attractive girls won't either because we know that a way to keep someone interested in to give them the gift of missing them, meaning that we never give them what they want until we're done with them. Of course, if that typf of girl has sex with you the first night, it pretty much means she only wanted sex from you in the first place and most likely will become disinterested the next morning.