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Dont stress over this... be yourself .. the sexier girls are only good for sex, being a good girl makes you wifey material your the one guys want to marry and have a relationship but those sexy girls are just a roll in the hay..
Hang in there ...
I haven't read the other answers so I don't know what advice you've gotten. I say just be who you are and screw anyone who doesn't like it. Don't change the core of who you are to please ANYONE. You be you and let the guys who are attracted to that come to you. If they don't like who you are forget them and find someone who does...
Well I think you sound NORMAL, like me and I would date someone like you anytime. Un religious and yet not a completely insecure party-freak-clubber person. smoking sucks. Drinking is okay case by case.
A girl can be a non-clubber-drinker and still be sexy.
I'm Not a guy but I would say you could apply the same question to whether girls like the "bad boy" or the good guy. I would have to say the bad boy is the one we all stare at etc etc. But we all want a good guy when it comes to relationships... I like to hope that the same thought process applies to the nice girl vs party girl thing..
Guys like girls that like them. A good girl is something most guys want, but never expect to get. A bad girl is something to guys go for, but don't trust. Bad girls can be fun, but bad girls aren't good to keep until they are ready to settle the F*ck down.
I choose a good girl because they are the best ones allot of them are better because of what they keep to them self's because they want a guy that likes them for them and not for what they done or is gonna do party girls are the girls I avoid they aren't really safe to mess with because of the amount of guys they been with besides good girls are great to show to your parents (thumbs up) ^_^
uhhhh first off, not all 'party' girls are sluts. hooray for stereotypes and false classifications. I loveeee partying, being social, and doing whatever I please, but it's self control over birth control for me, and as long as you set boundaries for yourself, I think partying is finnnnne
I think she's talking more of the 'hardcore' party girls that people see. Not the small percentage that's not an attention whore. I'm sure you know what she means.
f*** no, I would never date a party girl. they are only good for one thing, and that one thing lasts 45 mins or so max.
good girls who are shy are SO absolutely ADORABLE and perfect catches, and as you get older and older (and the longer you hold onto that morality), the more high quality amazing guys you're going to have chasing after you
I completely agree. I LOVE the shy, innocent, adorable type. I can hardly find them though...
Good to know that guys ;) tc
That's 'cause they're "invisible",you have to look closely and you'll find at least 1 :)
Lol ya true enough... and trust me high quality guys don't want empty baggage ridden sluts that want to settle once their wild days are over.
there are a lot more high quality guys than girls nowadays
I have always wondered about the following. Are the guys who like "sexier party" girls as serious about the relationships as guys who like the friendly nice types. Sexy party girls might be a nice fantasy but I feel like a relationship with the nice, cute, warm type has more substance and will be more meaningful.
In the end, I think your type "wins out."
you don't have to drink or smoke to be a playful person. its just awkward when everyone around you is getting wasted and you're not. being the "good girl" isn't a turn off for relationships. guys feel they have more of a chance when a girls had one or two drinks. if it looks like your not having fun, they probably won't want to talk to you. I actually prefer when a girl can control herself. party girls can wreak havoc and are unpredictable... being a party girl makes you approchable.
uh it's not like a bad girl is always a party girl who smokes and drinks all the time and whos completely insecure. I've been called a bad girl many times and not because of any of those things because I don't do any of it. They know I'm bad because it's just the aura I give off. I can seduce very easily with just my eyes and body language without even talking. Also, I'm very confident and I strive to not talk badly of anyone and keep secrets. And honestly, guys like me.
I love good girls, but they gotta be 'reasonable' though. In a way like ; I hope she's a virgin and not experienced, I hope she hasn't been touched yet ( or a lot ). I hope she doesn't drink. Smoking is OK. I hope she wants sex after 6 months, not 3 weeks. but not longer than 1 year, that's just ridiculious, guys need it, 1 year of waiting is just tomuch, sorry.
And what if 3 weeks of waiting is just too much for the girl...?
Then she?s probably a first class slut who banged alot. (:
Nope. I'd love a girl that didn't smoke or drink and was just laid back. I'm laid back. Being a party girl actually is a turnoff because who wants their girl grinding up on abunch of guys and getting drunk all the time? Not me
"good girls" are what I prefer
It's not that we like them more, it's that they are easier, we are always horny, so we respond to opportunities pretty fast.
It might be that guys like the confidence they see in sexy party girls. I get called innocent too because I don't drink or smoke but I don't know its a personal choice thing but still people think its weird that your not a participant.
Guys like "sexier" girls for a good time because they don't have to worry about hearing the word no. In the end, no good man is going to want to change a ho into a housewife, simple as that.
No, no, no.
Good guys like good girls. Bad guys like bad girls. If you want a bad guy, then you're out of luck. But if you want a good guy, keep it up. It'll just take a while to find him. We're in the same boat, pal.
You probably see more 'party girls' with guys 'cause they know how to party, they stand out 'cause they're usually loud, and everyone knows where to find a party girl ( clubs, parties). That doesn't mean that guys prefer 'party girls' over 'good girls'. If a guy is serious he's not gonna want all the drama that usually comes with a 'party girl', and in my experience a lot of those girls don't have good real world skills, as in being able to look after themselves.
Guys will notice and go after a party girls before they notice and go out with a "good girl"
That's just life...the party girls are seen as having fun and...I guess better girlfriends
Theres a word for "party girls" Its called whore. Its used frequently.
Haha