Why do guys only care about looks?

[Anonymous]

Why do the guys always look for looks in the girls and not what they look like inside?

[Quackpotty]

That's not true. Sure, the looks are the first things guys notice, but that's not everything. Of course we notice the looks first, as it's nearly impossible for a guy to like a girl like that before seeing her (it is possible, but improbable).

personally, the first thing that I notice is the eyes (yes, I do mean the eyes). after that, I'm not shallow enough to base a relationship off from what her eyes look like. I want to get to know her. That's what will keep me interested. The looks are only the beginning.

[homer]

While that might be the case for most guys about first impression, it is also true that looks will get you only to a point. It is the inside what matters after the initial phase. If it is hollow, I don't see any guy sticking around for the bomb "shell", literally.

[Moi77]

Probably because they're conditioned to. Porn, TV shows, and video games all portray women as a sexy trophy, no more. So, you are what you watch.

Date a geek, they're nice and will love you no matter what!

[AntioneEverett]

Yes, do that. I can say the same with women with romance novels or the ridiculous grocery list almost all of you have thinking you all deserve a millionaire or an Adonis-like Lizo with Chris Evans. I don't really care what any female says because you all do the same thing except its looks, money and status. Talk about shallow. So when you are on a dating profile you shouldn't be chasing after a Chad or thug. We guys have been telling you complaining women to go for average-looking guys and geeks but you think deserve a superstar with deep pockets.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

That's not true. Sure, the looks are the first things guys notice, but that's not everything. Of course we notice the looks first, as it's nearly impossible for a guy to like a girl like that before seeing her (it is possible, but improbable).

personally, the first thing that I notice is the eyes (yes, I do mean the eyes). after that, I'm not shallow enough to base a relationship off from what her eyes look like. I want to get to know her. That's what will keep me interested. The looks are only the beginning.

[Scrimz21]

Um guys aren't looking to marry someone at under age 18. Maybe you should get that. They want to have fun, when I marry my girl yes she must be good looking but she has to have a good personality and be willing to talk to. Right now, if you are straight ugly I'm not going to mess with you.

[Anonymous]

That is not necessarily the case all the time. Men see the looks first and may dismiss a girl based on that reaction only because they don't know them. If you have a personality that they might find attractive they need to see that also. The trick is to get past the first judgement and give them a chance to get to know you. If they find your personality attractive then BAM it's all good. If they don't then why would you want to be with them anyways?

[JeVousAime]

This guy is very right by the way :)

[robyn]

Because dudes are visually stimulated. Whereas girls are emotionaly, hence dudes are shallow.

[wildd]

Lol agreed.

[AntioneEverett]

Whatever lady any dating app I go on will show women are just as shallow going after the most attractive or financially successful guys on there. What burns me up with most ladies is all do the same thing but deny it. GTF. y'all have a grocery list to go along with the looks. Stop lying to yourselves.

[AntioneEverett]

@wildd Agree to what? Lies. I rarely see a pretty woman with an average guy because you all don't settle. Isn't that right? I think women just get mad if a man has any kind of standard.