First time; With or without a condom?
I've been with my boy for 3 months, and we were best friends for a year before that (Long story for another day)
We are planning on having sex soon. It will be his first time and, regrettably, I've had sex with one boy before him. I am the first person to ever even suggest something sexual to him, much less touch him
I am on birth control, but you must understand, I am highly paranoid of pregnancy. I would feel safest using a condom + BC, but for our first time I'm willing to just be on the pills
Would this make him a lot less content to use condoms from there on out if his first experience was without one? Sort of like spoiling him? Or should I go ahead and make this special?
What's Your Opinion?