A: Here's another way to look at this. Do you seriously think your boyfriend would stay in a relationship with a woman that treated him the way he treats you. I would bet not - he would say he wasn't being treated respectfully. That is the point - we should treat others like we want to be treated.... more
A: There is no such thing as marital bliss. Are you sure the grass isn't just looking greener on the other side of the fence? It's not going to be magically better with another guy.
A: Does he say where he is going? How often does this happen? If he is going out with friends and you trust them and don't think they would be supporting his cheating, fine. If he won't say where he is or who he is with, then you have a problem. What would he say if you were doing this? If he has a... more
A: Why is this number important to you? It should be the person that matters. One of my cousins felt this rush to get married by a certain age and now she is divorced. If he isn't ready, why would you want to marry him???? Just to meet an artificial deadline?
A: Focus on yourself. This is not something that you should expect a teenage boy to fix. You need to be healthy enough mentally and emotionally to be in a relationship. Fix yourself first. If you're with someone that thinks they can solve your problems, run away - they are probably one of those people... more