A: I used to agonize over break ups, do the 'poor me' bit. But, finally, I realized that I WILL get over it eventually, so why should I wait for 'eventually' to come around? I just got dumped a few days ago, by someone I really liked. It was an ego punch at first; and I allowed myself a pity party for... more
A: It's a cop out.He doesn't want a relationship. He wants you around for bedtime adventures, and that's it. Tell him you like him, and wanted to be with him,but your storage compartment simply doesn't allow for all that baggage. Then walk away. You'll be better off, and you'll be free to be with... more
A: It sounds like a relationship, if not a cemented one. Bring it up to him, that you'd like to be exclusive. Just say "We've been dating for X amount of time, and I'd really like to be monogamous; just you and I, without either of us dating on the side. What do you think?" That way, you don't just ask... more
A: Either he's never heard the idea of leaving a little mystery, or he's trying to make you swoon. Guys assume all women want lots of babies, blah blah blah. So some of them go on about wanting kids, to seem 'sweet' or just give them that much more of a chance to get into bed. Sounds to me, though,... more
A: It doesn't matter whether you're married or not; it's still a commitment. Yes, you can hang out with people of the opposite sex, but first see how your boyfriend/girlfriend feels about it. Then be completely honest about it; but I'd suggest don't hang out with anyone you've EVER dated. Better yet,... more