A: It needs to be proportional. I think it is more important to have a shapely ass. small boobs are sexy. big boobs are fine but having no ass looks odd and throws off the womanly figure.
A: He's trying to use his dinosaur brain to convince you that he did nothing wrong when he obviously did. Just think, would he be pissed if he found out some guy fingered you?
A: What guy isn't ready for sex? haha. That doesn't mean that he shouldn't respect your wishes though.and the fact that he asked over email is a little weak and childish. Don't let anyone make you do anything you don't feel is right.