I have a boyfriend who is a year older and we have been going out for almost 6 months. His prom is coming up soon and we were discussing it. He told me he was thinking of going with a close friend, who he was obsessed with before we were going out. That got me mad and I told him if he went out with him I would never talk to him again... I don't know maybe I was over reacting but w/e. So, he said yeah he wanted to go with a close friend and then he wanted me to go with one of his close friends. He makes no sense at all but I just ignored it. Everyone keeps telling me I should be mad at him but I don't know maybe I just didn't notice my anger. So, after we talked about it we went over a friend's house and watched a movie. When I got home, I started talking to one of my boyfriend's soccer friends. This kid I actually happened to really like before I started going out with my boyfriend. We were talking and he brought up prom. He asked if I was going with my boyfriend and I told him about the discussion I had with my boyfriend. Then, he said he might not even go because he is not into just brining a friend for the sake of going and that all the girls he likes are taken. Then I said jokingly oh then you should take me since my boyfriend didn't ask me to go yet. He said yeah and that I should def go with him. Then I asked my boyfriend if he still wanted to go with a friend and he was like no, I'm going with you! So, I don't know hopefully it will work out and the friend decides to go with someone else and I hope he knew I wasn't seriously serious but o well. But I don't know I kind of wanted him to take me... I don't know why maybe I still have some feelings for him. But I can't... I don't want to. Also, now my boyfriend knows his friend wants to go with him and now he is a little jealous and my boyfriend is about to call me soon to talk about it. That's about it... great night.
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