A: I think there are a couple of reasons. First, it feels GREAT! At least if it's done right. Also, it's a way for the guy to watch and it is a huge turn on for us to see you in action. It sounds like he may be a little selfish and only care to have his needs met and not worry about pleasing you,... more
A: I can only tell you what it meant when I did that in my marriage. I was avoiding sex with my wife because I no longer had the loving feelings. There had been many problems and I saw that she no longer cared how her actions made me feel. I think it's evident when someone no longer has the loving... more