32 years old and from Alton, Illinois, United States
I've made a lot of bad decisions, so I have a decent outlook on what NOT to do. If you can trust the word of someone who has screwed up and would like to help keep others from making similar mistakes, throw me a line.
A: I've always practiced that the best gift you can give someone is something that you know the recipient wants, will like, or will need. Needed gifts are good, but it's much more thoughtful to give him something or do something for him that you know he would like or that he has said that he... more
A: There's not much you can MAKE her do -- it's got to be her decision. But one thing you cannot do, especially if she is using, is enable her to continue in this relationship. If the relationship with this guy is destructive, and if there is nothing that you have done or will do to get her to... more
A: It sounds as though he might be pensive about dating a student's mother. Either that, or what he said before about not looking to be in a relationship is true, and he does feel awkward that both of you were somewhat intimate the last time you saw each other.He may not be willing to talk with you... more
A: See, I'm the kind of person that thinks you weren't setting your standards high ENOUGH when you were younger, else you might not be a single mother.So now that you have a child, of course, the wisest thing would be to raise your standards. You're not just looking for a man whose company you enjoy... more
A: Well, you've also got to understand that most of the people you hear these comments from are probably dancers -- I don't know that many dancers that are well-endowed.To be honest, your breasts sound like a size that most men really go for (this is really odd writing this to a 16-year old). I'm a... more