A: No it wasn't wrong of you to text him first. And that's why texting is such a sucky way to communicate because usually when people can't think of anything else to say, they just stop texting. So I wouldn't take it personally, he probably just didn't know what to say and didn't want to look dumb.
A: When two people go on a date, usually they agree to it because they want it to turn into something more, but in order for that to happen they have to get to know each other first. That is pretty much a date. Usually two people on a date have some sort of attraction to each other. If you're not... more
A: Are you saying that they should be able to have their cake and eat it too, or that things are that way unfortunately? Cause if you are saying that they can have their cake and eat it too, I definitely disagree. And yes, men are less committal because there are so many skeezers running around. more
A: Putting myself in her shoes, chances are she just wants things to flow naturally (boyfriend probably doesn't have much to do with it). Just keep your word. Don't over do it, (calling/texting multiple times a day), or under do it (calling/texting once a week). Just let it all flow naturally. Don't... more