A: I'm not sure I can understand why waiting will be worth it, but that is your decision not mine. I look at it as an orgasm missed can never be retrieved. None of the females on here who advocate how wonderful it is too wait have ever related what the wonderful part was. I guess it is one of those... more
A: Well it seems rather simple to me. Males want sex, and if they are not getting it they can hardly think of anything else. Think of what happens to a guy immediately after sex. If you don't do something to keep his attention, he will be asleep two minutes after the sex is over. If a male is getting... more
A: I can't really tell if you are a prude. I think you have a more mature attitude than your friends, as you say sexual matters should be private between the participating persons. You also say "ewe, that's gross" when you hear something sexual. Does that mean you are voicing your disapproval of... more
A: Well I wouldn't call it being a guy, and no it is not rape. He is very ill mannered and probably very inexperienced with girls. You did just the right thing so far. I think you should share the experience with an adult you can trust, perhaps a school counselor. Someone who could talk to the boy and... more
A: Your lips are fine. :) Every vulva is unique, different, and beautiful. Many girls think their vulva is ugly, but it isn't. As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and almost every guy finds them pretty. I used to know a website dedicated to girls like you. It had hundreds of close up... more