A: I would say to give him a little time to see where he's at, then try to talk to him about the situation. It's unfortunate that he's used to being hurt, because it could hamper promising relationship opportunities for him in the future (or in this case, the present). It sounds like your intentions... more
A: Just say that you like them as a person, but you're not attracted to them. It might sting, but if you're honest, it will be much better in the long run for all involved.
A: I didn't have this issue with my parents, but other family members who didn't want me to someday marry anyone of a different race or religion. I finally got fed up with their closed-mindedness and joked that I'd marry a purple-skinned voodoo priestess if I had the chance. Needless to say, they were... more
A: She could just be a friend of his, I wouldn't count yourself out just yet. Especially since it sounds like you're NOT one of those tan girls wearing so much make-up - I find them to be a major turn-off.
A: Just tell him directly and with some consideration for his dignity. You can definitely let him down gently, but if that's how you really feel, he should know.