A: Don't Do It. Wait. If you have to ask if you should than you shouldn't. When it is the right time you will not be wondering if it's the right time. It is not something you can take back.
A: Let me ask you this...If you were living with your boyfriend and he was seeing another girl would you think it was right? Obviously this guy isn't considerate of her feelings so what makes you think he's gonna be considerate of yours? Forget about him.
A: I think the new guy is a self respective man who is probably doing just that. Protecting himself. You owe it to him and to your husband to be honest about your actions and your feelings. You need to respect both of them regardless of what has or has not been done to you in the past. It is your... more