A: I guess this is another one of those questions where it really just depends on the guy. But when I think about it I usually just think about a girl that I would only fantasize having sex with or something like that.
A: Well, seems to me mate that youve benn f****ed over. By your friends and ur girl (H). I would just try and explain what happened to H and see what happens, but give it time. And as for ur 'mates' what the hell happened? I thought they were supposed to have ur back or somethin.:P