A: When he drops you off after a date just pull him inside and rip off his pants! He won't protest, unless he doesn't like getting blow jobs, which I have never heard a guy say before.
A: Jacking off just feels good. And when you have this great boner you get out of nowhere it seems like a waste. Then the cum comes out and it feels so great. It just one of the things guys do.
A: Ok 1 if you can't look deep inside yourself and figure it out, it probably isn't worth trying to make it work for this guy. 2) what ever you do don't spy on him, he will get pissed and leave you. 3) just keep him busy with doing stuff together, also trust him for short bursts of time and then worry... more