A: Firstly, yes do it face to face. Always.If you go for option A (the whole 'we've grown apart, I don't do long distance etc), it may be less painful for the girl to hear. However, it is not exactly a direct reason. Chances are she'll probably think about it a lot and not really understand why you've... more
A: His parents could possibly be an explanation for the unexpected break up. Funnily enough, the majority of my friends who are against marriage happen to have divorced parents. I'm not saying this is true for everyone, but is just interesting. Well, your parents are a massive role-model in your life,... more
A: The fact he broke up with you a month later is probably because he thought he was cool with it, but really wasn't. I reckon it hurt him much more than he realized, especially by finding out from another source. (I didn't know whether it was you who told him or another person)He is clearly still very... more
A: Yes, it is always possible. However, there should be other questions in your mind. I got back together with an ex after being separated for around a month and a half. Originally we had no contact (but attended the same school-awkward!), but then we started talking to the point of being best friends.... more
A: Well, I guess one suggestion could be that you're used to being single (how long were you single before you started dating?) Therefore you see it as the norm. For instance, I had a point where I found it unusual not to be in a relationship, as that was the norm for me. If you don't feel anything for... more