28 years old and from Portland, Oregon, United States
"You are too concern with what was and what will be. There is this saying - yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. But today is a gift, that is why it's call the present." - WuGwei
Everything happens for a reason. A person needs to love himself/herself first and foremost.
A: Unless she can move away from her past, this will be hard on you. Sounds like she still have a lot of emotional baggages with her ex. I would just do your own thing at this point and let her be. She seems like a really confused person. Best of luck!
A: I agree with teesand, you have to forgive yourself. At this point, it's fine to cry when you need to grieve because you have lost something you cherish but you do need to move on. Give it some space and time. In the mean time, continue to grow as a person, get stronger, and have fun.
A: That's a good question. Did you ever ask that question to your boyfriend? Sounds like he's not aware of how his stress is affecting his emotions, and is not able to cope with it effectively. In return, it is affecting you and the relationship. I'm unsure if it's time for a breakup but I do think... more