A: Short term, looks get you started. The better looking people get most of the initial attention.You want a date? Clean up, get in shape, make the most of what you got. And act nice and friendly, not like a jerk. But long term, you have to develop a personality or else you'll either bore or bother... more
A: Full time parenting is good for kids, if that's what you want and can afford it. So don't get forced into going to work if raising your children is where you truly want to be.Nothing wrong with keeping a clean house.A healthy sex life and appreciation and consideration for your spouse sound like... more
A: Hmm. He's over 21, so he can drink. According to you, he doesn't try to get you to participate. But he does discuss what he does openly and honestly, apparently. As for drugs, you don't want him to stop, right? And you've already said he doesn't try to get you to participate. Because your question... more
A: Are you truly good friends with her? If so, you should trust her. If not, you should not hang out together.
If she's just an acquaintance, AND so investigative about your boyfriend, then your instincts are probably right; she's at least pondering what could have been.
A: You could talk about longer term plans than your next date. Meaning, what the two of you will be doing together a few months from now. If he's in love he'll like to talk about that. If he's NOT, he'll likely be uncomfortable talking about that.