A: Sounds like she's doing the right thing. her obligation is to her husband and even if she IS falling for you, she's right to ask for her space. she needs to do what she can to make sure her marriage stays in tact. and even though you say nothing has happened b/n you guys, there is more to an affair... more
A: I agree w/wonder - a guy getting in the "way" of his wife having an affair is NOT getting in the"way" - he's being a husband! I am NOT a fan of affairs, and I think divorce sucks but if that's the only way out, I think that's better than being a cheater. if it's a loveless marriage, why would she... more
A: It sounds like being yourself has made you pretty appealing to him :-) - which is always the best way to go, anyway. he may just be apprehensive about losing a friend if he pursues you as more than that, or that he'll hurt you or maybe people are making more of a deal out of it than he wanted. guys... more
A: I don't have experience, but it sounds like you've set good standards for yourself and boundaries, and if you trust yourself, just continue with things the way they are, even if it means not spending as much time "together." *good luck!* www.whywasidissed.com
A: Nothing is wrong with you. if most men in your life tend to leave and you have low self-esteem all these feelings are normal. and I'm not sure there's something you can just "do" to make these feelings "subside." I really think you need to work through it with a counselor. in the mean time, focus on... more
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