A: Think of it this way. why do girls go for the captain of the football team? because he's hot. because he's talented. but also because a good captain understands the other members of his team. how to motivate them, where their strengths and weaknesses are, and how to help them do their best. the... more
A: The major difference is attitude. Being a good boyfriend means being a good friend. but flirtiness must come first. Do things to express dominance and sexuality (don't go overboard though). Try to impress her by planning a date. show her you have something to offer. Don't be too eager. Be cool.... more
A: Others think this sounds weird, but I don't. It sounds like there was a lot of hype about sex and now you are like, what was all the hype about? Sex doesn't always feel grand and amazing. Maybe you two are just really comfortable together, so having sex didn't trip you out. And that's a good... more
A: I'd say stick with the classic plan of dinner and a movie. Dinner gives you time to talk and establish further common ground. It's a comfortable setting with the most important thing-- a time limit. An hour and a half or two is the best length for a first or second date. leave her wanting more!... more