A: If you are talking about an emotional connection to you in a relationship, it's entirely possible that these guys never even had one to begin with. I'm saying that they probably just had a short lived physical attraction that is so common among high schoolers. More or less they just got bored. Up... more
A: Well, I believe the signs are as diverse and unique as the men out there, but to touch on a few that come to mind.*He maintains contact be it email, IM, phone, in person, etc, etc.*He wants to be "good friends"*Always seems to want to know what you're up to, where you are*Asks you to get back... more
A: There is not much of anything you can do besides making sure he has some help and support from friends and family. If you don't like him, forcing yourself to will only create more problems. As long as you've been honest with him and wished him the best, that's all you can really do. In the long run,... more
A: If you continue to pursue any sort of relationship, be it a "loving" one or just a friendship, you will continue to run into heartbreak on both ends, as there will always be the false hope that something more serious and long term will develop. On that front, you are doing fine since you have not... more
A: Give her the goodbye letter. You are right about many things here, and giving her the letter (depending on its content) is an appropriate and respectful way of saying goodbye given the circumstances. She treats you like shit, and frankly, there is no reason you should have to put up with that... more