A: Be yourself and you'll find the one who loves you for who you are. But also, it is true that guys like a woman who isn't totally independent. Guys like to feel needed, and if you are so independent why do you need him? Guys also like girls who are compassionate and a little nurturing. so if... more
A: Yeah, talk to him and be truly honest. it sounds like you two may be meant to be. maybe he is scared to tell you. maybe he is waiting because he wants to marry you and wants to wait until he is ready to marry. or until he thinks you are ready. good luck!
A: Not usually, and for good reason. having a similar background makes it much easier to understand each other, and understanding is key to a good relationship. I grew up upper middle class and have dated a lot of lower-middle class/poor guys and it never works. they always feel like I'm the "little... more
A: I lost my virginity in a meaningless way too, and before I really wanted to, and I dealt with it horribly. I felt so bad for so long and it really tainted the way I have been with guys for years. You think you feel bad for one mistake? Don't be like me and follow it up with several more mistakes... more
A: When I read this, I thought for sure you were a teenager. I was going to say things like, "is this her first relationship?" but you're not. you are 30-35. so I'm assuming she's somewhere in her 20s or 30s and this is not her first relationship. in that case, I don't get it either. she sounds... more