A: Wednesday is the best. It doesn't appear desperate and lets her know that you would like to make with her ahead of your friends, and shows that you are courteous enough to ask ahead so she can plan. It is not so far ahead to look anxious but, allows you to ask before any other guys do.
A: You should take the high road even though she doesn't. At least you will have known you did the right thing by e-mailing her one last time. She may see an e-mail from you and delete it without reading it. So,remember to print it out and mail it. It would be up to her and her conscious to acknowledge... more