I am 18 years old and just graduated High School. I am currently engaged in the whole 'dating world' and its experiences. I am here to share my thoughts and opinions from a 'shy guy' going on 'boyfriend material' perspective to help others in similar situations.
A: That is unfortunate. It seems as though this guy didn't really know what he wanted. Its possible he just liked you as a friend and when he thought things might actually turn into other things, he shyed away cause he wasn't ready. Maybe he isn't ready to commit to anything. Maybe has a lot on his... more
A: I would suggest just hanging out on a first date, getting to know one another. link As far as conversation starters, ask the guy questions. It lets him know that you are interested in getting to know him. Questions like:What classes are you taking?Favorite: Kind of music, artists, movies, hobbies,... more
A: If I had to guess, guys see women as very sexy beings and having 2 of them in sexual activity is like double the fun for some. Some guys like lesbian sex while others prefer traditional male-female sex. Everybody has their own fetishes when it comes to sex. But to some guys lesbian sex, rids the... more
A: Haha. Well it would have helped to know what type of guy you are interested in, because guys are different XD. Yes there are some common similarities between us, but our personalities vary a lot. Guys like girls, but all of us have a unique way of showing it, so there is no 100% for sure way to tell... more
A: RejectionYour internal requirements/ standards that you don't say but we just know we aren't good enough.The fact that many of you don't hint to the ones you like with an actual 'smile'.The situations you are in (already doing something, or hanging out with other friends)Or maybe we can just see it... more
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I am going to be realistic here by saying that my ideal first date would probably just be hanging out with the person I am interested in. At the park, at her house, going for a long walk, etc. I would probably be wearing my brown somewhat tight shirt with comfortable dark jeans and my necklace. The date would end with me dropping her off at her house and reading her body language..
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date would know that I am a pretty laid back guy with a growing sense of humor. She would know that I want her to be comfortable around me and that I am interested in everything about her. She would realize that I am uniquely different from other guys and that I have my own set of insecurities about myself just like her. Hopefully we are on the same level, which would make things less stressful