A: Listen Joe, if you get through one romantic moment with her that should do alot. When you see you're about to go through a moment, think to yourself "I'm doing it, I'm doing it"! While you're doing it. Make the first move, not too strong, but strong!
A: For 1, the next night. For 2, both. There is supposed to be a rule not to call at all, in some cases. But some of us don't go by that rule, so then it depends on who are with.