I'm a student working towards my bachelors in psychology, then onward to my masters in counseling. Perhaps I'll get my doctorate (if I feel that studious). I love working with kids, wine tasting, shopping for black heels, and hanging out with friends. I'm passionate about jazz music, my major, black and white photography, traveling, and would LOVE to write a book on relationships one day. I'm like the psychologist version of "The Wedding Planner". Feel free to drop a line if you have any questions. :)
A: It's so hard to nail down the components of a "perfect man". The media throws these outrageously unrealistic movies and scenarios of true love, so it brainwashes us. Also, a lot of women are hopeless romantics. We'll try to save guys that we love because we hope they might feel the same way we do.... more
A: Make it a point to see him more often. Plan get togethers with a group, or see if he's interested in grabbing some coffee or dinner (make it seem casual so he doesn't get nervous). Be the same girl he likes to be around, but take a little extra time getting ready.) Guys are visual, so he should pick... more
A: It may be a mix of both. Why not be honest with yourself and her and let her know how that makes you feel. She'll either be completely thrown by how her conquests make you feel (she may not have realized it), or so smitten that you're jealous. If she's going to be so immature that she can't leave... more
A: I think it was wise for the site to delete the question. While it may not have been inappropriate, some immature and rude people could post incredibly hurtful or harsh things. Even people with the toughest skin can sometimes crack under the pressure to conform to certain ideals. Why do you care so... more
A: Normally I'd say it's not an issue, but depending on his age, it may be problematic. I know a guy who is one of the MOST caring and sensitive (straight) men that I know. He has 2 roommates, and it crazy in love with my friend's younger sister. Granted he's 24, not in his 30's. You have to look... more