A: Lol this is where I come in, my boyfriend was perfect like that always said he loved me, brought me things etc. Now he's changed ...like he doesn't need me at all anymore...I WANT THE OLD EMOTIONAL GUY BACK...does that answer your question?
A: Yes, its fine. That's why there are gays and lesbians and even bisexuals. Some people say it's not okay but that's because they aren't open minded and were brought up to think its wrong or gross. Those people don't matter. Listen to yourself and do whats comfortable.
A: You should ask him if he still thinks you're attractive, if he says yes then say "why were you masturbating to porn then?" Either he'll have an answer and if he doesn't DROP HIM. Its sounds hard and stupid since you just had a baby but if he's acting this way only 6 weeks after, he ain't f**king... more