A: Changes in behaviour are usually a sign something is up. At this point its best to ask straight out and if doesn't give a definitive answer cut him loose.
A: Guys generally are pretty bad at saying what they're thinking but they tend to go along with stuff for a while at least. Sometimes gives a false sense of reality and here you are using the word "seemed". These days its not rocket science to find some way to make contact. Sounds like he's ignoring... more
A: Guys are generally quite bad at saying what they're really thinking but in the meantime they tend to go along with what stuff. Tends to give a false sense of reality. Best you can do is if they don't make suitable effort to stay in contact, write them off.
A: You can't get her back while she doesn't want to come back and if you keep asking it's possibly going to start pissing her off. Then you really will have a problem. All you can do is be a casual friend. that's phone her up now and again ask how she is, don't mention relationships or feelings or... more
A: 2 shy people together = problem but someone's got to take charge, otherwise everyone starts assuming things without communicating about them. you need to tell him. It kind of sounds like he totally doesn't realize. He likely thinks you're perfectly happy with this arrangement.
Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I'll be the one in flamed new rock boots, black shirt and leather trousers. Go to a quiet pub, for drinks to relax and get to know one another. If we're getting on alright, either loose track of time having fun & laughs or go to club to dance the night away together.