A: These kind of "friends with benefits" (which is what it is since you are not boyfriend/girlfriend) relationships are great until one person feels more attachment than the other. Often, girls enjoy the emotion of sex and guys enjoy the physical release. To be blunt, he's gettin' his rocks off with... more
A: Yikes. Sounds like the guy is not 100% committed to being in this relationship for the long haul. Not sure if he is the children's father, but if not, he is about to have "instant family", with lots of financial responsibility. Sometimes in unique situations like this it might be helpful to seek... more
A: Sweetie, please please please listen to this advice, or the wise advice of other adults and GET OUT.I don't want to judge you but frankly it is so difficult to read your story without getting worked up. 1. You are not even 21 yet and you are trying to have a child with an alcoholic who has a temper.... more
A: Since communication is so important in a relationship, and this communication seems to be fading, if I were you, I would be upfront with her about her feelings. Not deep and committed talk about marriage, just ask her something like you are feeling. Don't text her. Don't IM her. Don't email her.... more
A: I think true love comes up and bites you when you're not expecting it . It maybe a rush of intensity, or may just grow over time, but when you realize you are in love, it's an overwhelming feeling . It's hard to "try" and fall in love with someone . And it's hard to forget a love too . You might be... more