A: There are different kinds of 'loves', you love your father, brother, a friend, a cat/dog, child. It's all love. But when you're IN love, that's only with a person you want to be with as boyfriend/girlfriend, have sex with, that makes your heart race. So 'I love you' but 'I'm not in love with you'... more
A: I really don't see a problem with that, you're both consenting adults and if you find each other attractive and want to have sex, what's the big deal? On the contrary to what some youngsters here might think, people have sex at all ages and at 45 a woman can be VERY attractive! ;-) So if you like... more
A: This is a very difficult situation, and to be brutally honest. You'll have to choose between your friend and the guy - she's already made it clear she wouldn't accept it if you dated him - so you either go for it, and lose a friend, or let it go and keep the friend. You can TRY to explain it to her... more
A: I'm a little confused but. From what I gathered, this guy is displaying signs of affection, he's respectful of you, he hangs out with you (even if it's in a group). Seems to me he likes you as much as you like him! I'd give it some time. Oh and by the way; friends with benefits DO have sex, that's... more
A: Well, it seems a no brainer but then again I'm wondering how much of your description of Guy # 1 is hurt pride and how much is real? I'm not saying you're not a good guy, but maybe he's not THAT bad - and even so...it's her decision to make..not much you can do about it. I hope you get some distance... more