A: Watch other girls that are good at flirting with boys. of course, do what you're comfortable with and ALWAYS be yourself. but watch those girls' body language and how they smile, ect.
A: We can tell when we make you nervous and if we think you're cute enough we'll try and talk to you. this (commenting on the situation at hand) is a lot less invasive that a pick-up line.
A: Even though you are technically, "legal" that doesn't mean what he's doing is right. you know this otherwise you wouldn't be even questioning this situation. the feelings you are having are valid because IT IS CREEPY. he is abusing his power and authority over you. not okay. go to college and... more
A: Maybe you're focusing too hard on getting off. Try and clear your head and enjoy the visceral experience of sex. I find that if I focus too much on the "when am I going to orgasm?" part, I usually don't.