A: Ask her out. It sounds like she's giving all kinds of signals. At first, they were subtle. Then, more blatant. I have recently gone into signal overdrive with the guy I like. I was really subtle at first. I've since realized that I have to be really overt with it. Maybe that's what she's been doing... more
A: Indifference hurts more. If they hate you, you KNOW why. Could be something you've done or just how they FEEL about you. Indifference means they don't give you a second thought and you're insignificant. And, you never know why they feel nothing for you. A huge blow to the self-esteem. I was married... more
A: Well, it happened to me. It wasn't a lustful thought/feeling. It felt more like someone or something were pushing me from behind to meet this guy. We've been close ever since. The sexual attraction has gotten stronger over time but only AFTER I learned more about him. The whole situation is weird.... more
A: Supportive, Caring, Intelligent, Funny, Able to Stand Up for Himself, Trustworthy, Sense of Self-Worth without being Egotistical, True Compatibility/Companionship, Empathetic. Note: Handsome and Rich are not listed in what I'm looking for in a guy. Looks fade over time. I have a job and can support... more
A: It sounds like you've already "sort of" had that talk. You're really only a teeny step away from being a couple. And that little step is only to say you are indeed a couple. After the acknowledgment, the rest (making a move) will follow naturally.Take down that one final brick in the wall.... more