25 years old and from Berkeley, California, United States
I'm a grad student in biophysics. I look like a nerd and usually act like one but I have another side that I only let out once in a while!!!
Boy, thanks to advice here, I had a 'first' I never expected..spanked a guy who misbehaved. Maybe it should be a standard part of a girl's repertoire..!!!!
A: She isn't paying much attention to you or she'd know you wouldn't talk in front of this loudmouth. The fact she'd get so angry and not ask you to explain shows she isn't really into caring about you.
This is just a friend, and a shallow one at that. A sort of really minimal 'friend'
A: As long as our society allows early sexual activity, as it does now, kids a lot younger than 16 are going to be NEEDING advice, more than older people in general. You can see that from the kinds of simple questions the younger people ask here. They clearly don't have friends or family to explain... more
A: I think her family will keep on interfering with you in this serious way. If you don't mind that sort of pressure and drama and you really like her, fine. But don't think it will EVER stop!
A: Yes, indeed, and they mostly want it that way.As Lan says, it's not true in other cultures so much, but among the Condie Rice Brigade here in the US, yes indeed.
A: Yes, the guy wants you as a friend in a strange land, someone who he can talk to.but no doubt he is quite taken with Japanese women. I don't blame him. So distant yet so trendy, caring, emotional.I don't understand them myself but I can see that Western guys find them FASCINATING.and sexy.You're... more