A: Your poll isn't working.How long ago did you guys break up? How long did it take for him to get with those girls? They are just rebound material. I know that this has happened to me, but I think you had breakup sex. It sucks if both parties are not on the same page, but it really doesn't mean you... more
A: I guess I am a "nerd lover" I just think that really smart guys that can stimulated me intellectually are really sexy. But I am a science major so that could also have something to do with it. She could just be talking about guys who dress kinda nerdy as being *hot* . I draw the line though on... more
A: Okay her backing off is a bad sign. I would try and tell her where you are at if you really think you have a chance with her. Maybe she is backing off because her boyfriend and her are getting along better? I would also be careful because she flirts with everyone. Could it be that she is only... more
A: I agree with actionfigure23, he probably thinks you are being too codependent. Just back off for awhile and see how he treats you. He might think that you like him, and doesn't want to give you the wrong impression, therefore he acts that way. If it is REALLY bugging you then sit down with him... more
A: It can hurt. I would recommend lots of foreplay before to get you relaxed and ready. Take it slow, and use lots of lube. It shouldn't be too bad, and just remember it gets better once your body gets used to the physical act of sex.