A: I don't think the wife has anything to do with whether or not the husband cheats. some men are just going to cheat, I mean, halle berry, heidi klum, and shania twain all got cheated on. men can just be idiots lol
A: I understand where you're coming from, and that's nice and all, but it's his money, and if he wants to spend it on taking his girlfriend out for her birthday, I think that's his decision. taking you out would make him happy.