A: I'm like you, I'm also 17 and don't like the choices at my school (I live in a rich area so they are mostly spoiled and conceited). You might not like my answer but it has found me plenty of girls. Start dancing, there are almost no other boys around my age and plenty of girls.
A: To answer your first question, he will become more comfortable over time, since you are his first girlfriend. I can't tell you exactly how to get him to pay more attention to you around his friends, but try talking to him in private about it, he may not know he is doing it (I know that sounds dumb,... more
A: Well, there's a tough one. No matter what you don't want to come off too strong, I've done that too many times. Focus attention on her, find out what she likes and do nice things for her. If you are good at flirting you should try that too. Drop a few hints, if you can. If you do this she should... more
A: There's a lot behind it. Most people you are dating were growing up in the 90s and maybe some in the 80s. So you need to see that they were growing up with shows like Seinfeld and Friends which made sex seem like something you do with every other person on the street. So for them, finding a virgin... more
A: You don't need any extra help or anti-depressants, with help from a psychologist. You will probably just fall in love with the psychologist and you would probably become addicted to the anti-depressants.What you need to do is realize that you just have new emotions. Based on Erikson's model for... more