A: Also something you could do is to slowly kiss him passionately. Kiss his neck, kiss and lick the front of his ears and gently blow in em like breathing on them, touch him all over his body and while you are in the act tell him if it hurts or go slow, it's always good to COMMUNICATE!
A: If it's your first time, I personally liked that he went slow because it hurt some. As you an him engage in more sexual activity the pain goes away =) once you get it done with there is no stopping you lol. Make sure you're safe too!